About Brilliant Children
Brilliant Children is an education centre for parents, grandparents, guardians, children and educators.
We provide Positive Education Coaching and Guiding through face-to-face coaching, group seminars, training, and online training for parents, grandparents, educators, guardians of an unborn child to teens. We also provide the services for mental and physical needs for children of all ages from babies to teens.
Brilliant Children Institute is all about creating excellent skills in parents’ lives and the lives of children through the use of education theories, Positive Psychology, NLP, Clinical Hypnosis, Time Line Therapy, Psychosomatic, Body Code, Emotional Code, EFT, Meta-Dynamic based and rapidly changed technologies. Each model is a new trend and fresh approach to the whole family which Ha Le has created for all parents and children. This is also a holistic approach to family fields and can fit each’s needs as a parent and as a child.
Parents are mirrors for their children
Below is a famous poem that all parents might be interested in understanding how important their roles are in their children’s lives in many aspects:
Children Learn What They Live
Dorothy Law Neite
If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy.
If a child learns to feel shame, he learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement, he learns confidence.
If a child lives with praise, he learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.
If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith.
If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship, he learns to find love in the world.
It goes without saying that with appropriate approaches, right leadings, plenty of encouragement, thorough understanding from parents, children can thrive to grow healthily in all areas of emotional, physical, social, cognitive development. From there, they will flourish confidence, determination, resilience and high levels of emotional intelligence… When children have all those qualities, they will become part of who they are and this stays with them for the rest of their life. Moreover, children can utilise all the imagination that they’ve possessed as an armour to go through pains, disappointment, challenges and furthermore, as a light towards happiness and life’s abundances.
Nowadays, we are facing more and more problems in mental health than ever in our society. When parents have their child in their arms but they could never imagine that one day, their child could be one of the persons who would have mental health issues, or who would be stuck with work, or would have broken relationships or physical pains, or who will be very poor in socializing…. Nobody knows for sure what will happen to their beloved child/ren in the future. They just raise him/her with all resources they have without instructions on how to do it wisely for intended outcomes. Due to ever-increasing mental health problems of the current and coming generations, the percentage of depression patients has gone up dramatically. It’s a very discouraging fact that researches have shown that 1 in 3 person gets depression in Australia. Besides, the number of young teenagers have been involved with drugs, crimes, early pregnancy, leaving school halfway at an early age has been statistically increasing all over the world. This calls for urgent needs for parents to be equipped with right skills and knowledge to raise their children appropriately.
Risk comes from not knowing what you’re doing
Results that parents are having now with their child/ren come mostly from the differences between them and their child/ren.
In the Parenting Program, we focus on the parents, particularly on their wellbeing and their interaction with their children. Then we will investigate the connection between the two.
By analysing the multi-faceted dimensions of parent-children interactions and connection, parents will come to learn insights into how to treat the children and help them grow, how to apply a right approach to inspire and guide them to develop fully as a person.
We firmly believe that when parents are confident with their parenting methods, you will get armed with an internal GPS which guides them in the long run at every turn, hurdles and through unexpected challenges in life.
Reasons you should choose Brilliant Children Institute for your family
- We have the broadest, updated theories to serve your family
- One size doesn’t fit all, therefore, we have different modalities to cater for each individual’s needs of your family. We deliver guidance for you to come up with a solution for issues you are facing with.
- You might get a big surprise at the first session.
- We offer long-term support, re-sitting for training so that you can continually engage yourselves with updated information, learn and master your skills fast and make them last longer.
- We have the great experiences in training educators who had no skills at all, parents who cry out in despair with their child/children. They are all in the right place of their own and are confidently take an essential role in the education of their children and have a happy family now.
HaLe has been working with families for more than 25 years. She has often named ‘Family’s Guru’ by her educators and parents. No case ever unsolved by Ha Le!!!
What the coaching is about
Brilliant Children Institute has 3 main keys to offer to your family
1) Excellence in communication
The interaction between your child/children and you is mainly based on communication, both non-verbal and verbal ones. Excellence in communication is to provide to you first understanding of how you communicate, language patterns and strategies you use to achieve a purpose you want to achieve with your children at any age.
We will share with you:
- How to understand your child/ren’s nature through their nonverbal and verbal communication and have a right response to them to build up the right characteristics and eliminate unwanted behaviours.
- How to instantly solve any problem or challenge that your child/ren could bring to you in any situation. This achievement is the MAIN CORE of successful parenting.
- How to maximise your child/ren’ skills in all areas, how to inspire them to thrive for growing and learning along the way based on Positive Psychology, NLP, and Hypnosis.
- We will work with you to eliminate unwanted emotions which have been worrying you, bothering and stopping your child/ren to grow and thrive based on Gestalt Therapy With Children.
- The Milton’s Model of Communication and the Meta Model of Communication will be shared with you so that you will understand various patterns of language used to induce changes in a simple conversation. You will then be able to learn how to use your smooth word as powerful resources for eliminating problems as well as building up the right behaviours in your child/ren.
- The deep magical structures of language based on Virginia Satir’s Model will enable you to bring about positive emotional states in children so that they will be more receptive, co-operative to your messages.
- Learn how to embed your child/ren’s mind with a good learning program which will be used as tools for them to embark into with confidence through NLP, Hypnosis and the other proven and scientific language models.
- And many more
2) Excellence in psychology
You will know how to choose an experience of your own to go through.
Have you ever experienced emotions like anger, sadness, fear, frustration coming out at times when dealing with your child/ren? And these feelings stay with you for weeks or sometimes for months? Years?
The real challenge is that often you are at the effect of your emotions, and what does it mean here? It means that you accidentally allow the unwanted emotions control you and they have inserted their power on you.
Above information is the main reason which affects your child/ren’s relationship with you, and the worst thing is your child/ren will model these behaviours from you, and they throw them back to you or people around them when the chances occur.
You feel powerless because you weren’t taught how to use your emotions rightly and how to eliminate unwanted ones. Looking back, you were not taught these skills at school and if the previous generations of your family had un-useful ways for dealing with their emotions, then guess what? You are likely to pick up the same patterns of emotional and behavioural expressions and your child/ren will tend to carry them on and on.
Children are like wet cement. Whatever falls on them makes an impression.
It’s the emotions that get passed down generation to generation unless you have the ways to stop them.
Have you ever wanted to understand why you think, communicate and behave the way you do which lead to the current outcomes of the relationship between your child and you? Have you ever wanted to know why your child/ren think, act, communicate e.c.t in the ways they are now? If your answers are YES, then Brilliant Children Institute’s coaching, courses and seminars will blow your mind.
We will provide ‘the excellence’ in your psychology which is about to put you back into the captain’s position of your emotions. We give you tools and strategies to choose the feelings you would like to experience and guiding you to remove unwanted emotions and limiting beliefs that have been holding you back for fulfilling your duty as excellent parents for a brilliant child of your own.
A beautiful thing about coaching and training is that we teach you how to carry it out by yourselves and after that, you will have the skills and knowledge needed for the rest of your life for your child/children, and for yourself, and you can teach your child/ren do the same.
A true teacher would never tell you what to do. But he would give you the knowledge with which you could decide what would be best for you to do.
Christopher Pike, Sati
3) Excellence in behaviours.
Minds are like parachutes, they only function when they are open
You can download an app you like and install it on your mobile phone for your purpose needs. In the same way, you can choose habits and behaviours and connect them inside you for your purpose.
The opinion above is precisely what we guide, share and teach you how to achieve excellence in your child’s behaviour.
In real life, you have probably witnessed a lot of people trying to get rid of unwanted emotions and behaviours but keep making the same old patterns again and again despite so many times going with their commitment for a change. All creates frustration, deflation, disappointment in them and might cause them think that changes are impossible.
Most people try to change their habits and behaviours consciously, but their practices and actions keep coming out unconsciously.
The key to change is in the ‘UNCONSCIOUS MIND’, not in the conscious mind!!!
We do things through the control of the unconscious mind. Therefore, we need to get access to the unconscious mind to change things.
The good news is that the unconscious mind will take the path of least resistance if you know how to access it.
When accessing the unconscious mind, you will discover the underlying needs and then find a way to satisfy these requirements to bring about changes in habits and behaviours almost instantly.
Above discussion is what we share, teach and guide you and much more in our Brilliant Children Institute.
Learning is not attained by chance. It must be sought for with ardour and attended to with diligence.
Why parents need the coaching
An investment in knowledge pays the best interest
Parenting is most rewarding job in the world, but it demands a great amount of energy, knowledge from the parents to lead their child/ren along the way, and right way. It has been said that we learn everything in so many years to achieve necessary skills to become a professional performer in a field. Similarly, raising a person for at least 18 years requires parents have appropriate training, right skills and a correct manual for this job. It sounds really scary!!! No wonder we have so many issues in our society since we have so many improper trainers.
It is what we think we know already that often prevents us from learning
Some people also say “I try my best for my children and hope they will be the good persons in the future”. They just hope and trying hard is sometimes not enough to raise and educate a successful person. Parents need specific planning and goals for your parenting and your child/ren’s future.
The quote below is the compass for the parents to follow and have a right support and training for your beloved child/ren’ bright future, and they deserve the best from you.
Knowledge is power? No. Knowledge on its own is nothing, but the application of useful knowledge, now that is powerful
Brilliant Children Institute has a high commitment to equipping you with skills and knowledge you need for your child/ren and to helping you to develop mastery in your parenting.
The time is now to have excellent parenting skills for your brilliant children.
What Brilliant Children has for you
We have a group of well-trained and professional staff who provide you with a beautiful service that your family deserves with relevant and updated information and newest approaches to successful parenting.
We provide seminars, courses, workshops and classes from one-to-one coaching or teaching in small and large groups. We have a very friendly, comfortable and confidential environment to serve you.
Modes of coaching can be face-to-face, online or by webinars, phone and web talks (Skype) or home visits to suit your needs.
Audios, videos and books are available to enhance learning and broaden your knowledge.
We also take the bookings for corporation/ organisations, eg. Child care centres, workplaces, community groups, private settings, hospitals for parenting coaching, courses or classes. You can pick up the topics most needed for your service, and we will develop a program accordingly and deliver the training to you.
Knowledge is of no value unless you put it into practice
You get fully supported by us at any time you need when you join Brilliant Child family.